What If You Could Reconnect With Who You Were B.K. (Before Kids)?

HINT: Raising kids isn’t the only thing you were put on this Earth to do!

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You want to feel important, and needed  like you did when your kids were young. But, you did your job well and they’ve grown into independent adults....

Your New Vibrant Life is Waiting for You, But You Won’t Find it Until You Can Stop Living in the Past

I get it though. Living in the past seems better than what's happening now. Your life feels like the movie Groundhog Day:

Everyday you run through the same routine: Get up, somehow make it through your day, have dinner, and crash into bed, utterly drained, and dreading the next day when you'll do it all over again.

You wait for your kids to call or text, but they never do (unless they need something), and you end up feeling hurt and unloved.

You try to talk to your partner about it, but they don’t feel the same way. You might as well be talking to a wall.


Logically, you know there must be more to life than just barely surviving, but nothing seems even remotely interesting, so you give up trying to discover something new to occupy your time.

And what’s worse is... 

You know that time is passing you by, and all you can see when you look into your future is a big dead-end…

Here’s the Thing: What You’re Going Through is NORMAL!

You are NOT alone.

Think about it: What did you do that brought you to this point? You raised your kids to be independent adults! That’s a good thing - right? It's better than good; it's PHENOMENAL!

You’ve overcome more challenges than you can count - you have grit.

So many women (me included), have felt what you’re feeling now. I used to envision a brick wall at the end of a dark alley when I thought about my future (inspiring right?)

Most of us aren’t prepared when the door shuts behind our kids, that last time, as they leave the house to live on their own. 

They’re ecstatic - we’re crushed.

You don’t have to be crippled by thoughts that the best of life is behind you, because that’s absolutely not true.


It doesn't have to be like this.

Hi, I’m Carmen, and I’ve faced the overwhelming challenge of learning to live without my daughter (my best friend) too.

Five years ago I was lost and confused, and to top it off, I felt guilty about feeling lost and confused! (Can you relate?)

It felt like insanity, and I didn’t want to dwell there. So, after a good loooong dose of feeling sorry for myself, I got busy.

I was on a mission to understand why happiness seemed to have forsaken me -  after all, I had checked all the boxes:

  • Raised my daughter to be an independent, responsible, productive member of society - CHECK!
  • Married to the man of my dreams - CHECK!
  • Owned my house, and made it a wonderful home - CHECK!
  • Earned more than most because I excelled in my career - CHECK!
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So, what was the problem?

I had no clue.

What I did have was a whole lot of anxiety. It felt like someone had pulled the rug out from under me, but I couldn’t pinpoint one event to blame for that feeling.

While it was more than a little difficult to learn how to live without my daughter, there was more to it than that.

When I finally learned how to reconnect with myself, a whole new world of possibilities opened up for me.

It was one of the most important journeys I’ve ever been on. 

In fact, I believe in it’s power so strongly that I became credentialed as a  certified coach so I could guide other struggling women through this dark time of life.


Never again will I be detached from a healthy, happy, full and empowering life, and I want the same for you.

I help fierce women, like you, rise to the challenge of midlife so they can create their best life instead of settling for the status quo and fading away.

All the anguish, anxiety, and loneliness you’ve felt has brought you to this moment for a reason. Heed your inner guidance and take your first step out of the fog.

There’s a new day dawning for you.


Introducing Passport to Purpose

Passport to Purpose is a 7-Step Mini-Course that helps women over 40 feel vital, interesting, alive, and ecstatic about creating their life again... all in one week or less, AND without struggling or guessing what to do next.

Yours for only $27

Here’s how you’ll go from floundering with no direction, to OWNING the gift of your life experience, and confidently steering towards your purpose:

Step 1

Hire a New Pilot

Going with the flow helps us get by in life, but you might not realize that it leads to living life on autopilot, which results in giving away our power.

You'll Identify:

  • Whether or not you’ve given away your power 
  • Your go-to method for dealing with difficult situations
  • How to stop living life on autopilot and live with intention

Step 2

Question Everything

When was the last time you sat down and assessed your life? Perhaps you’ve been mentally doing so recently. In this step, you get a chance to put those thoughts into writing.

You'll Identify:

  • Why your life is the way it is (the good, the bad, and the ugly)
  • Your true feelings about your life
  • Those hopes and dreams that have stayed with you through the years

Step 3

Set Your Destination

You’ve probably heard the saying If you don’t know where you’re going you’ll never get there.” This is where you set your destination so you can know where you're going.

You'll Identify:

  • How you want to be remembered
  • What kind of impact you want to have
  • How what you've always wanted to do can get you there

Step 4

Reconnect With What Lights You Up

You were given likes and dislikes for a reason. They are like messengers guiding you through this thing called life. It's time to explore them, call them out, and start paying attention.

You'll Identify:

  • What type of things you love to do
  • What type of things you'd rather pay someone to do
  • What others seek you out to help them with

Step 5

Open Yourself Up

We receive messages all day in many different ways, but if we’ve become used to running on autopilot, we also start tuning them out.

You'll Discover:

  • How to become open to life messages, and what they are
  • The power of curiosity
  • Ways in which your body is communicating with you

Step 6

Turn Challenges Into Opportunities

Sometimes, we wish life was always smooth sailing with no storms or obstacles to overcome. The truth is, our experiences facing, and overcoming challenges, make us who we are, and they hold the key to who we can become.

You'll Identify:

  • The challenges you've overcome in your lifetime
  • What you've always been interested in doing or trying
  • All the the things you could get paid to help people with

Step 7


Facing the unknown can shake us to the core, and learning to let go of who we were when our children needed us is a new unknown. To be able to get past the feelings of grief you have to believe in yourself.

You'll Be Reminded:

  • That what you believe about your life is true
  • That you're not behind, it's not too late, and you're exactly where you're meant to be

By the end of Passport to Purpose, you’ll have done the work, so you can have a higher level of understanding about who you are, what you want, and all the possibilities life has in store for you.

And, Your Bonuses

BONUS #1: The Midlife to Best Life Private Facebook Community

Included at no additional cost!

When I say "You are NOT alone." I don't mean just because I'm here rooting for you; there's a wonderful group of people waiting for you to join us so they can support you too, share their struggles, be a shoulder to lean on for you, and hold space for you to work through everything you are faced with in your journey. 

BONUS #2: Begin Your Inner Journey Workbook

Included at no additional cost!

This is your printable passport. It's the 7 steps from the online platform all in one document to allow you to type into, or print and hand-write your responses and discoveries. Take it with you and keep working on beautiful you.

BONUS #3: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone Checklist

Included at no additional cost!

After living for everyone else for so long, it's understandably difficult to push yourself outside of your comfort zone. This handy checklist is like a kick in the butt in your back pocket! Pull it out every time you find yourself stagnating. 

BONUS #4: Do or Don't Decision Maker Flow Chart

Included at no additional cost!

The Do or Don't Decision Maker Flow Chart is a sweet and simple tool. This flow chart asks you some simple questions about what you're about to do and guides you through the the process of deciding if it's the right thing to do, or not.

BONUS #5: Problem Solving Tree Re-usable Form

Included at no additional cost!

Enter any problem you're working through, along with the options and other criteria, to apply a rating system which automatically brings the right decision for you forward. Reduce arguments with proof of the next right steps!


Your Investment

I know you've probably tried to force yourself to get a grip, put on a happy face, or pretend things aren't as bad as they are. And yet, try as you might, you're still stuck.   

The problem is most of what you’ve tried was dependent upon sheer willpower. Those things don’t take you deep inside yourself so you can explore, discover, and understand who you are, and what you need right now. 

Passport to Purpose flies in the face of the belief that you’ll find the answers outside of yourself. If finding the answers somewhere “out there” worked, you’d have found them already. (Am I right?)

My mission is to get this mini-course into the hands of as many women as possible. I KNOW the second half of life can be the best half of life once you reconnect with who you are, and understand that all of your experience as a parent means you have mad skills which lead to endless possibilities for your future.


Women need to learn how to turn their hard-earned skills and experience into a guiding light for themselves, and I knew I had to make this accessible.

That’s why I’m offering the Passport to Purpose, (a total value of $457)

 for only a single payment today of $27...

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Here's What Other Women, Just Like You, Say About Working With Me

This course (Passport to Purpose) is amazing! It is a little more time consuming and in depth than I expected but OH SO worth every moment.

This has helped me stop and really think about what I love, what I want my life to be going forward. I'm not too far into the course and I'm already seeing a light at the end of my tunnel.

I've been "MOM" for nearly 30 years and lost myself in the process (would not change a day). I loved being mom not only to my boys but so many others.

Your videos are on point without fluff and I LOVE this!

Your questions are very direct and clear. This helps me focus and stay on the correct path to finding my purpose. I am truly enjoying discovering myself again. This has given me so much hope for my future!!

Once I finish this I will be doing your other courses for sure.

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Why do Women Struggle With This Problem?

The the most common mistakes they make are:

They blame themselves for not being prepared for this major life transition, I mean it’s not like it was a secret that the kids would grow up one day - right?

Here’s why doing this doesn’t work, and the results and emotions it leads to…

I made the same mistake! It’s almost unbelievable when the day dawns that you suddenly don’t know how to live life anymore. It happens because you’re suddenly thrust into a life where you don’t have anyone else to focus on. It caused severe anxiety for me because every single moment of the day was a reminder that I didn’t have a purpose anymore. I felt useless.

They look outside of themselves for the answers.

Here’s what happens when you do this…

You’ll keep chasing the next thing, and the next, and the next, but you’ll never find the answer, because nobody else is YOU! Remember in The Wizard of Oz when Glinda tells Dorothy “You’ve had the power all along my dear”? Well, you’re the Dorothy to my Glinda.  

They underestimate their strength.

Underestimating your strength leads to…

The false belief that you don’t know what you’re doing, that everyone else has their shit together, and that you just have to find the right person/thing that will give you the answers you’re searching for. That kind of thinking is taking the easy way out. It allows you to blame others for your success or failure, when you, my dear, have the all the power you need.

Dear Friend,

You are stronger than you know, and once you tap into that power, the spell of confusion you've been under will be broken.

Here's what I'd like you to know...

I did the inner work so I could live my best life...

I’ve helped countless people work through mindset issues so they too could live their best lives….

And, now, I want more than anything to help you live your best life…

But, you don’t know me, and I understand that it can feel sketchy to purchase a program from a total stranger - you wouldn’t be the savvy woman that you are if you didn’t have those feelings.

Which is why I offer you a 30-day money back guarantee, along with secure checkout, and a low cost for this course. I WANT us to get to know each other, and I’m making it a no-brainer, high-value, low-risk offer to make that happen.

You might be thinking “This won’t work for me.”


Well, if you’re heading into anything with that thought then you’re correct. Passport to Purpose isn’t a magic pill, and I’m not giving you the answers you seek, because you have those locked inside; I’m helping you to unlock them for yourself.

The best part is that doing this work is like opening a can of unicorns (because worms are gross!) You can go through the entire mini-course in one day if you’re motivated, and your mind will see things differently afterward - I promise - it just requires you to do it!

If you go for the fast route, I suggest you revisit the questions (and your answers) in a week or two, so you can see something you may have missed during the first go-round. 

You might decide to work through one step each day, and have it done in one week. Either way, once you own it, you have the material to go back to and reassess where you stand at any given time in the future - that’s powerful.

You can’t unsee what you’ve seen, or learned, and Passport to Purpose is designed to get you seeing things in a whole new way.

Let’s take a look at what happens if you don’t decide to honor yourself and become the driving force behind your brand new, vibrant life:

  • You'll wake up tomorrow morning feeling the same way you feel today - less than.
  • You’ll keep running the pattern of looking for gratification outside of yourself, and if you look to your kids to help you, well, you know it’s not their job.
  • Your self-confidence will keep taking the hit it’s been taking for far too long, and nothing good can come from that.

You are a role model! More people look up to you than you realize. So, if you can’t find it within yourself to put yourself first, please think of the message you're sending to those people who look up to you every day. Are you showing them that after a certain age it's normal to give up on your dreams? Of course not.

You're going to show everyone that you don't settle, give up, or fade away - hell no! Life doesn't end at a certain age, it keeps on going, and you're in the driver's seat ready to take the wheel. Let's do this!


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Frequently Asked Questions

What, exactly, do I get when I purchase?

You get seven lessons with video intros that prep you to answer the questions in each lesson. The questions are designed to get you thinking about your life and make you aware of things you haven’t been tuned into.

It’s this awareness that allows you to see things in a different way. Most of the time it’s not that someone else’s life is so much better than ours, it’s that we are seeing it in a different way than we see ours. Passport to Purpose guides you toward assessing your life in an objective manner so you can accurately define who you are, what you want, and all of the possibilities waiting for you.

I've never purchased an online program before, how does it work?

There's so much available online!

If you haven't purchased an online program in the past, I hope you'll look at this as stepping outside of your comfort zone to discover new territory. Online learning has been around for decades and is only getting better.

I provide a very user-friendly online platform, and I also provide an instructional video to show you how to successfully navigate it. You will also receive documents and bonuses that you can download and use offline if you're more comfortable doing that.

Think of all the things you've learned over the course of your life - online learning is just one more feather in your cap!

You've got this!

How long will it take?

It can take as little as one day, but certainly can be done within one week if you decide to work on one step a day.

At a minimum I suggest setting aside 30 minutes per step. Some of the steps may take a bit more time, some will take less.

You want to take your time answering the questions in each step by stopping to think about what each question is asking and diving deep for the answer. Surface answers will not get you very far. The idea is to reconnect with your truest version of yourself and that requires stopping, looking, and listening.

How do I know I’ll actually take action?

How badly do you want to feel light and happy again?

What would you do to make that happen?

A motivated person could complete Passport to Purpose in one day. Depending on how deep they go for the answers to the questions it might take all day, but is one day of effort worth years of possibility? I sure hope so!

If you don’t have the ability to set aside a block of four hours, can you set aside 30-minutes a day and complete it within a week?

There are so many possibilities! Ask a friend to be your accountability partner and check in with them after you’ve completed each step. Set timers, schedule it on your calendar, do whatever it takes to honor your growth.

Here's the thing: Time isn't waiting for you, and life isn't going to stop. When will you finally decide to put yourself first?

What if I need more help?

There’s a wonderful community of people waiting to welcome you with open arms in the Midlife to Best Life Community on Facebook. Reach out there and I, as well as your peers, will give you the support you need to see real change in your life.

Passport to Purpose is part 1 of the 3-part program. To take yourself deeper into your journey, I recommend adding Boundaries With Purpose, and Purpose Finder Lab to your cart at checkout. You'll learn more about what they offer when you make your purchase.

Why is this so inexpensive?

I’m on a mission to help as many women as possible successfully navigate the midlife transition. The possibilities for you are endless, and that excites me; I want it to excite you too, but you have to be able to realize it first. By selling Passport to Purpose at a rate that’s accessible to more people, I have the ability to help more people.

What if I’m not happy with it?

I provide a 30-day money back guarantee. I ask that you show me you did the work, and I do this because whether you decide you like it or not, your mind will have been opened to new ways of looking at your life, and I believe that will benefit you no matter what.

So, if you’re not happy with it, simply show me that you’ve done the work within 30 days and your money will be refunded in full.

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Here's What You Get With Passport to Purpose

  • Instant access to the online course portal and 7 modules, videos, lessons, and 12 tools, worksheets, and templates...
  • Lifetime access to all of the videos, tools, lessons, etc., including any future updates...
  • Bonus 1: The Midlife to Best Life Community, A Supportive Private Facebook Community...
  • Bonus 2: Begin Your Inner Journey Workbook...
  • Bonus 3: Get out of Your Comfort Zone Checklist...
  • Bonus 4: Do or Don’t Decision Maker…
  • Bonus 5: Problem Solving Tree...

Only $27 - Backed by a 30-Day Money Back Guarantee!

I know Passport to Purpose works, because until I did the same inner work I'm teaching you in this mini-course, NOTHING I tried worked, and I tried "all the things."

I want you to skip the wasted time and effort, dive into the wonderful woman you are, and get results NOW. 

But if you aren’t satisfied that implementing what you learn in Passport to Purpose will give you a better understanding of who you are, what you want, and the possibilities for what your next step could be, I’ll give you your money back. 

To request a refund, simply send an email to support@midlifetobestlife.com within 30 days of purchase, requesting your refund, and show me that you’ve done the work.

Getting unstuck doesn’t have to take years, or cause you to feel like the best of life is behind you. 

I know you’re tired, frustrated, and doubtful, but Passport to Purpose is as close to a magic bullet as you’re going to get. 
Nothing changes that we don’t put the work in to change.

Because we can’t progress if we’re working inside a bubble, Passport to Purpose comes with a supportive group of women just like you who are waiting to welcome you into the Midlife to Best Life Community.

You are NOT alone.

How would it feel to have identified how all of your experiences in life have set you up to succeed?

To realize that you have the power to recreate your life into something that you’ve always dreamed of? 

Within one week, you could be feeling excited about what’s next for you!

Or, you could be stuck in the same place wishing that your life could go back to the way it was, and wasting the opportunity to make it even better than before.

It’s your choice. You have so much power that you get to decide whether you stay stuck in the pain, or take this first step toward finally understanding that life has not forsaken you.

You deserve this! Not only have you raised one or more human beings to be independent adults (um, hello, what’s more difficult than that?), but you were a whole person before they ever entered your life.

 You can be a whole person again.

Permission granted to put yourself first, and create a life of your dreams!

To Your Best Life,

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