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Many Women feel sad, loney, and lost when the kids move out, or when they wake up one day to a life they don’t want anymore.

Some have searched high and low for new friends, new hobbies, and new purpose only to feel defeated when those things don’t pan out.

The Key Is That Your External Life Isn’t Going To Magically Blossom Until You Start To Nurture Your Internal Self.

So many of us are still discovering who we are and who we’re meant to be, and that’s…….wait for it…..NORMAL

It's NOT your fault! Life gets in the way, and before you know it you've lost touch with yourself.


I know - I've been there.

Here’s how the “purpose” scenario is playing out for women all over the world: 

  • “I’ve raised my kids, they’re out of the house, and they don’t need me anymore - now what?”
  • “Was being a mom my purpose in life? If so, what am I supposed to do now?”
  • “My kids are doing their own thing, and I’m left standing in an empty house all alone.”
  • “Without all my kids’ practices and school events I’ve lost touch with other parents and have no friends!”
  • “I wake up every day and just exist.”
  • “I’ve tried to become interested in things to no avail - nothing interests me - what’s wrong with me?”
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  • “I don’t know how to talk to my husband any more; it’s just us in an empty house.” 
  • “I’ve got decades left and I have no idea what I want to do with my life, or even what I want to do next.”

I understand! I’ve been that woman standing in an all too empty house wondering what to do with myself, and I hated that feeling.

Here’s what I want you to know: 

You’re not broken! 

You’re not lacking, and raising your kids absolutely was NOT the end of your purpose in this lifetime

When our kids fly the coop and no longer rely on us it hurts. 

I’m here to show you how to move away from that pain into the excitement of discovering your next steps toward a life that lights you up. 

How would it feel to care deeply about life in a new way?

Oh, and you’ll get your groove back too. 

Sound good? 

PASSPORT TO PURPOSE: 7 Steps to Reconnecting With Who You Are


  • Leaping out of bed each morning because you’re so excited to get back to living the life that you love. 
  • Figuring out what makes YOU happy! For too long you’ve put yourself last; it’s time to learn how to put yourself first again. 

You were once an individual with big horizons, and you tackled those. You built a life that you can be proud of, you raised a family, and you’re now on the crest of a new horizon. 

This is an exciting time, it just doesn’t feel that way - YET!

Before you can embrace a new phase of life, you have to learn how to release the old phase that no longer serves you.


  • To be able to take time for yourself to discover what you really want out of life?
  • To get the guidance you need to banish the feeling of being lost?
  • To make new friends; friends who are working through the same things you are - Women you can talk to who understand what you're going through?
  • To have a step-by-step guide in your tool box to follow any time you need to get back on track?


  • Bending over backwards to meet other people’s expectations of who you should be: Thinner, more talented, a better daughter/sister/mother/wife/employee, etc. (The list goes on)
  • Putting yourself last for so many years that you now feel guilty even thinking about putting yourself first!
  • Giving every bit of what you had to give to your family, friends and employer, only to feel unappreciated and let down time and time again.


You hold the answers inside; you just need to learn how to release them.

Relying on others to validate you, confirm your worth, and give you purpose is a losing battle. You’re more than capable of uncovering your purpose once you learn how to journey inward - and oh what a journey it is!

So, why "Passport to Purpose"?

This system is designed to get you ready to take your journey inward. 

In the same way that taking the steps to obtain a traditional passport that allows you to travel to exotic lands far and wide, the Passport to Purpose prepares you to travel the miraculous lands within.

The Journey

You don’t want to feel like you’re living life by accident! You want to feel passionate about your life again, have purpose, be excited to greet each day, and be proud of the results you achieve - but how? 

For starters, you’ll need to be able to put yourself first, which is a foreign concept for most of us. You could start scheduling “Me” time into your life; this would allow you to set aside time for exploring your options. 

Until you realize that you can’t schedule “Me” time effectively when you haven’t taken the time to get acquainted with who you’ve become, what you want, and how to spend your precious time!

You'll also soon realize that unless you set boundaries your "Me" time will evaporate.

You have so many ideas about what you might want to do, but you need some way to hone in on what will be right for you. 

You want to make a difference but life is moving so fast; you don’t have tons of time to try a bunch of things out, so how are you ever going to make the right decision? 

That requires pulling together all your options, taking the time to explore which are right for you (or not), then honing in on the best options with testing - and knowing how to do this.

That’s the life-purpose journey in a nutshell, and you could jump into action, but you’ll hit roadblocks and setbacks that I want to help you avoid. You need your Passport to Purpose before you can SUCCESSFULLY embark on your journey. 

What's Included In Your Passport?

Passport to Purpose is an easy to use mini-course that gently guides you through exploring your life as it currently is, and also helps you figure out what you want it to be. 

You can work through the lessons in a simple online platform that I walk you through, or you can download a workbook of the course to type into, or print and hand write your responses.

No matter your level of comfort with technology - I’ve got you covered! Plus, I’m available in the Midlife to Best Life Facebook Group to answer any questions you may have.

7 Steps - 7 Lessons


You need to stop living life on auto-pilot. You have to be intentional about what you do, what you want, and how you’re going to get there. Step #1 helps you take control of the trajectory of your life.


Before you can make any changes, you need to start questioning EVERYTHING! You can’t change what you don’t fully understand. Step #2 provides the questions you need to apply to your life so you can gain clarity.


Once you understand what you want out of life more fully, you can set your destination and decide on what kind of legacy you want to leave. Step #3 guides you through this process.


Is all about helping you reconnect to what lights you up. When we’ve put ourselves on the back burner for so long our true wants, needs, and desires are forgotten.


Teaches you how to open yourself up to receiving “life messages.” These are the messages from your intuition, and signs from the divine. There are messages all around you that you’re missing if you haven’t learned how to be open to them.


Shines a light on your strength by showing you how you can turn challenges into opportunities. If you want to make a difference in the world, the challenges you’ve overcome hold the key.


Pulls it all together by teaching you how to BELIEVE! All the work you put into figuring out your purpose will be wasted if you don’t believe in yourself.

The best part of this program is that it honors the fact that discovering your purpose is a very personal journey. No two women will have the same experience, and that’s why you’ve got to be in tune with your inner guidance instead of relying on external sources geared toward the masses. Passport to Purpose starts you on your path to inner discovery.

Plus - FOUR New Bonuses!

BONUS #1: Begin Your Inner Journey Workbook

This is your printable passport. It's the 7 steps from the online platform all in one document to allow you to type into, or print and hand-write your responses and discoveries. There are some bonus questions and prompts waiting for you too!

BONUS #2: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone Checklist

After living for everyone else for so long, it's understandably difficult to push yourself outside of your comfort zone. This handy checklist is like a kick in the butt in your back pocket! Pull it out every time you find yourself stagnating to give yourself a boost.

BONUS #3: Do or Don't Decision Maker Flow Chart

The Do or Don't Decision Maker Flow Chart is another kick in the butt in your back pocket (purse, files, wherever you want it)! This chart asks you some simple questions about what you're about to do and ensures that you know if it's the right thing.

BONUS #4: Problem Solving Tree Re-usable Form

Enter any problem you're working through, along with the options and other criteria, to apply a rating system which automatically brings the right decision for you forward. Reduce arguments with proof of the next right steps!

Ready to Dive in and Get Your Groove Back?


  • I was exactly where you are now approximately five years ago - I UNDERSTAND how overwhelming life can be when you become lost.
  • I’m sharing the exact steps I took on my journey from feeling like my future was a dead-end (like I literally envisioned a brick wall at the end of a dark alley kind of dead-end), to discovering a whole new world of possibility. I’m on fire, and I want you to feel how empowering it is to discover what lights you up too!
  • Over the years I’ve learned from (and with) some of the best life and business coaches in the industry. I became a certified Whole Person Coach for the very reason that we are complex beings, and if something’s off in one area of your life it affects all areas. 
  • My holistic approach to teaching you how to give loving attention to your body, mind, soul, relationships, and career ensures that your journey will be a healing one.

Hey there! I’m Carmen.

Five years ago I was lost and confused, and to top it off, I was feeling guilty about feeling lost and confused! (Can you relate?)

It felt like insanity, and I didn’t want to dwell there for long. So, after a good dose of feeling sorry for myself I got busy. I was on a mission to understand why happiness seemed to have forsaken me -  after all, I had checked all the boxes:

  • Raised my daughter to be an independent, responsible, productive member of society - CHECK!

  • Married to the man of my dreams - CHECK!
  • Owned my house and made it a wonderful home - CHECK!
  • Earning more than most because I excelled in my career - CHECK!

So, what was the problem?

I had no clue.

What I did have was a whole lot of anxiety. It felt like someone had pulled the rug out from under me, but I couldn’t pinpoint one event to blame it on.

While it was more than a little difficult to learn how to live without my daughter, there was more to it than that.

When I finally learned how to get to know and reconnect with myself, a whole new world of possibilities opened up for me.

It was one of the most important journeys I’ve ever been on, and I believe in it so strongly that I became credentialed as a whole person certified coach so I could guide other struggling women through this dark time of life, in integrity. 

Never again will I be detached from a healthy, happy, full and empowering life, and I want the same for you.

I help fierce women rise to the challenge of midlife so they can create their best life instead of settling for the status quo and fading away.

All the anguish, anxiety, and loneliness you’ve felt has brought you to this moment for a reason. Heed your inner guidance and take your first step out of the fog. 

There’s a new day dawning for you.

Passport to Purpose is right for you if...

  • You’re done trying to please others.
  • You’re brave enough to journey inward with an open heart and mind.
  • You have the desire to honor your life experiences and explore how they may hold the key to a new beginning.
  • You’re adventurous and not afraid to try new things.
  • You’re ready to learn how to put yourself first for the good of yourself and the people you love.

You're not a good fit if...

  • You’re unable to imagine making bold new changes in your life.
  • You need someone else to validate your decision(s).
  • You’re worried about what other people think.
  • You believe that putting yourself first is selfish.
  • You’re not able to finish what you start.


What’s standing in the way of you finally getting the relief you so desperately want from the feelings of being lost, confused, and quite frankly - depressed? 

You hold the key to your own happiness and it’s time you invested in yourself to unleash, once and for all, the resourceful powerhouse you are meant to be!


It’s only through journeying inward that you’ll be able to make the biggest positive impact in your life and those of your loved ones.

When you click the “Get Your Passport to Purpose Now!” button you’ll be taken to an order page to complete your purchase. 

You don’t want to miss this opportunity!


How Long Will It Take To Complete Passport to Purpose?

Everyone progresses at a different pace. It all depends on how lost you feel, how open you are to change, and your pace at working through the materials. What I can tell you for sure is that doing the inner work is some of the most intense work we’ll ever do and it shouldn’t be rushed. You’re looking for answers from within, and if you’ve been living a primarily outward existence it will take some time to become accustomed to how different (and empowered) you feel. 

Will I Know My Purpose After Completing Passport to Purpose?

Passport to Purpose is a guide that prepares you for the journey to discovering your purpose. Some women are close to figuring out the next phase of their lives; they may very well discover their purpose through the work in this guide. For others, it may take further discovery, which I provide the opportunity for.

I Notice You Mention "Messages From The Divine." Is This A Religious Mini-Course?

That's a great question! I consider myself spiritual, not religious. I use the terms The Universe, The Divine, God, Energy, Spirit, etc. to describe the Higher Power. I believe we are in The Universe and The Universe is inside us, therefore, when I mention being open to receiving messages it can be interpreted as being able to connect with source energy and guidance.

I Have Never Purchased An Online Program. What Can I Expect?

There's so much available online! If you haven't purchased an online program in the past, I hope you'll look at this as stepping outside of your comfort zone to discover new territory. Online learning has been around for decades and is only getting better.

I use a very user-friendly online platform and I also provide an instructional video to show you how to successfully navigate it. I also provide documents and bonuses that you can download and use offline if you're more comfortable than that. 

Think of all the things you've learned over the course of your life - online learning is just one more feather in your cap!

If, for any reason, you’re not 100% satisfied with the results you’re able to achieve by following the Passport to Purpose system, all you have to do is show me that you’ve done the work, and your payment will be refunded to you in full.

NOTE: All refund requests must be made within 30-days of purchase.