Discover how easy it can be to create your best life:

  • Set Your Goals
  • Track Your Progress
  • Improve Your Life

When was the last time you woke up and YOU were your number one priority? 

If you can't remember, or it doesn't happen often you need to change that!

  • Is Your Life Fulfilling?
  • Do You Feel Like Life is Wide Open With Possibilities?
  • Are You Working on Setting Yourself Up For Success?
  • Are You Confident as a Role Model?
  • Are You on Track to Reach Your Life Goals?

If you answered “No” to any of these questions you’re in the right place. 

You Can't Keep Going This Way...

You’ve been living your life for everyone but yourself, you wish you knew how to get unstuck, but you don’t even know what your goals are.

Change is Possible!

Let's put you in your very own starring role, the one YOU develop because it fills your life with joy.

Sound good?


I'm  Carmen

I'm the Founder of Midlife to Best Life, and a certified Whole Person Coach who has helped countless women overcome the obstacles holding them back.

More importantly, I know what you’re going through! I experienced the overwhelming feelings of being lost and confused right about the time my daughter moved out while I was contemplating quitting my job and imploding my life out of sheer frustration.

I’ve been there - I made all the mistakes, and I needlessly struggled through it alone.

I understand.

I also vowed to help other women avoid the same fate. So, as soon as I made it to the other side, I started developing a program to keep other women from wasting precious time floundering with no clear direction.

My methodology is known for giving women back their power so they can make the second half of life the best half.

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When You're Struggling Through Change Alone

 It's Difficult to Figure Out What's Next

There's no need to compound the difficulty of the midlife transition by trying to figure things out on your own only to end up more confused than ever. To gain clarity you need guidance and support. 

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 A supportive place to grow.

Not Sure What Your Purpose Is Anymore?

You've lived your life for everyone else and now it's your turn to shine! You'd love to feel excited about your future, but you don't know what your purpose in life is anymore.

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Passport to Purpose: 7 Simple Steps to Prepare You For Your Purpose Journey

To search for your purpose without reconnecting with who you are at the soul level is foolish.

It's too easy to get "out-there-itis" which leads to us searching high and low, near and far for answers. Here's the truth: They're not "out there." You hold the power inside, you just need to tap into your inner guidance once again.


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Boundaries With Purpose: Honor Yourself by Protecting Your Precious Time 

If you find it difficult to say "No" when you know you should, you need to learn that setting boundaries is an act of love.

Boundaries With Purpose helps you protect your most precious asset - TIME. If you want to uncover your purpose you need to be able to set the kind of boundaries that support you and set realistic expectations for yourself and others.


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Purpose Finder Lab: Where You Get to Explore, Test, & Define Your Purpose

This is where you define ideas and test them to reveal the exact next BEST step for you.

You’re about to embark on a journey of self-discovery, reveal the stories that have been keeping you trapped and learn to release them and the limiting beliefs associated with them. 

You’ll discover that you’re not broken; in fact, you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Through empowerment you’ll learn to visualize a new future.

Visualization alone isn’t enough, however, you also need a plan. After going through the Purpose Finder Lab process you’ll walk away with your Purpose Plan.



I'm Love Making Clients Happy!

This course (Passport to Purpose) is amazing! It is a little more time consuming and in depth than I expected but OH SO worth every moment.

This has helped me stop and really think about what I love, what I want my life to be going forward. I'm not too far into the course and I'm already seeing a light at the end of my tunnel.

I've been "MOM" for nearly 30 years and lost myself in the process (would not change a day). I loved being mom not only to my boys but so many others.

Your videos are on point without fluff and I LOVE this!

Your questions are very direct and clear. This helps me focus and stay on the correct path to finding my purpose. I am truly enjoying discovering myself again. This has given me so much hope for my future!!

Once I finish this I will be doing your other courses for sure.

Cindy Landrum

Carmen has a way of making you feel at ease while narrowing in on your issue! She is truly gifted at what she does and she helps you bring out your best with her caring and fun attitude.

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Carmen's coaching was amazing - she helped me pinpoint what direction to take in my social media career. I went from frustrated to focused after our coaching because we identified my strongest area is more on building online community and less on branding myself on just social media marketing.

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Grab your FREE copy of the MidLife Compass

It's time for you to make positive change in your life. This simple yet powerful tool can be used over and over again to calibrate your life, make sure you're on the right path, and track progress. 

Download our free worksheet to track your habits and make improvements in the 5 main life domains: Mind, Body, Soul, Relationships, and Career.